Living your life with no expectations... is the best way to do it.
If you don't have expectations for anyone - if you don't expect anyone give anything to you, you may be quite surprised what may come your way.
Don't expect that the people you trust today will be there tomorrow; don't expect that what you have in plan today will turn out in the future. It all sounds very pessismistic, but it really helps you to see and appreciate when good things happen.
On another note, over the past few weeks I've come to learn that I really hate liking people. When I say like, I mean on likage on all levels. It makes me feel certain when I like someone, that everyone in the world is wanted except me.
Goodbye for now.